How can you find the Bottom in Leeds?
- On the Internet. The safety precautions remain. The Tops can be deceived as easily as the Bottoms on BDSM dating sites with an audience in the UK.
- Among vanilla. Unfortunately, the Bottom girls in the crowd don't stand out in any way. Generally. After all, the Bottom girl can only be someone's Bottom, and not for everyone else. Therefore, education from scratch remains one of the most effective ways.
- At Thematic parties in Leeds or other UK cities. At least there you can definitely be sure that everyone around you is aware of at least part of what you want. Attending events like this on a regular basis can help you get to know the right Bottom.
What is BDSM dating
BDSM is a psychosexual subculture formed by people who practice dominance and submission as a kind of erotic role-playing game. Under the terms of such a game, one of the partners (lower) voluntarily transfers control over the sexual scenario and responsibility for its implementation to another partner (Upper) during the game session. This phenomenon is also known as an erotic exchange of power, which can take place both within limited time sessions and in ongoing relationships. In the latter case, we can say that the identification of oneself with the roles of the Master or the slave is continuous, and such a relationship is a style of life.
The abbreviation BDSM contains several components of this phenomenon, namely: BD (Bondage & Discipline) Bondage (bondage, restriction of mobility), role-playing games with discipline, play submission, humiliation, various punishments. A set of physical influences and psychological techniques aimed at obtaining pleasure from the dependence of one partner on another. These are the practices of binding and fixing, verbal humiliation, submission and punishment in a game format.
DS (Domination & Submission - dominance and submission) a set of behavioral models of domination and subordination, the pleasure of the implementation of which is achieved due to the agreed inequality of partners. This inequality is often reflected in the provisions of a special contract drawn up by thematic partners, as well as in adherence to the rules of thematic etiquette. As an example, a strict mistress and a naughty slave, female domination, master and slave.
SM (Sadism & Masochism - sadism and masochism) Practices associated with obtaining pleasure from causing (sadism) or experiencing (masochism) physical pain (in the people of sado-maso). The most popular types of stimulation are spanking, flagellation (flogging), playing with needles (play piercings).